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Most compelling about this collection is that it jumps from the mundane (blood pressure readings taken at 7am and again at 2.30pm; trouser size noted as 34R; his disappointment at the ending of the film Amadeus), through to the historic (his arrest by a plain clothes policeman who he describes as being “very, very, very correct and courteous”) with barely a breath taken. As Mandela himself puts it: “In real life we deal, not with gods, but with ordinary people: men and women who are full of contradictions.” What comes across is that Mandela is an African leader from another age, at once regal, conservative and chivalrous and at the same time emotionally reticent, seemingly unable to express spontaneous warmth about those closest to him. When his friend Ahmed Kathrada raises the subject of how the young Winnie reacted to his marriage proposal, he says: “I am simply not answering that question.” I have one caveat. Despite the volume of Mandela material now in the public domain, I have a feeling he will go to his grave carrying secrets. For example, how much did he know about his wife Winnie’s reign of terror in Soweto in the late Eighties that brought great shame to the name Mandela? I have it on good authority that he was apprised of the details throughout those terrible days, and yet there is barely a passing mention here or in any of the other authorised books. Such omissions mean we shall probably never know the whole truth about Nelson Mandela.
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Peace is achieved
through negotiations
not through war


